The Butterfly Illusion Theory of Love by Sadia Hakim

People want the butterfly parts of you without that pupa stage. They want the light without the darkness. But can a 3-stage metamorphosis result in a butterfly?  A 3-stage insect never has to face the death of its former self to reach its final form. It simply grows larger, tougher, and more recognizable. That is […]

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The Butterfly Illusion Theory of Life by Sadia Hakim

The Butterfly Illusion: why transformation requires the darkness >>> Society has lied to us about what it means to grow. We are taught that progress is a straight line, a ladder, a steady climb from one success to the next. We are told that if we just work harder and get bigger, we are winning. […]

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Broken hearts and shattered souls can end lives, scientifically speaking…

I am a human, and a poet, and a pracititioner. Let me tell you that you can die from a broken heart. There is this thing called takotsubo cardiomyopathy. It’s emotional or physical stress-induced cardiomyopathy. Emotional trauma / death / loss of someone or something / domestic abuse / financial loss / confrontation whether physical […]

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The illusion of heroes and villains: grey morality in human nature

In life, there are no heroes and no villains. I dislike dramas and movies because, in stories, there is just one fixed villain or more than one villain, and there is one fixed hero or more than one hero, and they remain just villains and heroes for the rest of their lives until the writer […]

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The sacredness of being unseen and going unnoticed

They cannot hunt what they cannot see — that’s the sacredness of going unnoticed. There is a violence in being seen — not always with fists, but with eyes that demand, with hands that take, with mouths that dissect you like you’re prey. The world does not witness, it consumes. It feeds on softness, chews […]

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Claustrophobia — suffocating inside my body

I am claustrophobic. Do you understand that? This heart is caged in this body, and this soul is buried in its darkness. Can you understand my pain? Can you hear my screams? Can you feel my suffocation? Can you know my madness? I am horribly confined. I am disgustingly limited. I am claustrophobic. Do you […]

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Let me be angry, it’s my birthright — I was 6

I won’t forget when my depression and loneliness were labeled as laziness and an inability to walk with people.I just can’t. I was a kid. — Sadia Hakim

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The implosion of a hollow heart — homeostasis

If there is nothing within you—no fire, no love, no fight, no desires, no dreams—only emptiness—then the world will fold you into itself, make you smaller.

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The anglerfish that chose light over darkness — sciopoetica

I wasn’t a terrifying monster—until life pressed me into its darkness and made me one. Perhaps that’s how the universe shapes its creations—under pressure.

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We are a leprous society—decaying, yet too numb to notice

People justify their wrongdoings, much like an infected limb ignored until it becomes useless. Leprosy deadens the nerves, making a person unable to feel wounds;

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